Why people prefer Casual relationship over Committed ones
To make it simpler: Once there was a time when we use to cook all the food at home itself choosing all the ingredients very carefully. The dishes were made from the scratch like going to the market, getting the ingredients, washing cleaning and cutting them putting all the flavors accurately and then starts cooking to make the dish tasty and satisfactory.
Now days just to avoid the tiring procedure of cooking, we bring food from outside which can be cooked, semi cooked food or fast food which we eat less and waste more. Being lazy and just for the sake of saving time we bring readymade food from outside which we sometimes dispose off also because of the expiry date which makes cooking of food a luxury in this modern world where people have no time for comfort.
If we apply the same logic in relationships which are made now days are pretty much similar to the packaged food which we bring any time when we are hungry and we eat till the time only we liked it and once we are done with it or don’t have any more ease to eat it we just threw it off.
The trend of having a casual relationship has came from western cities where people don’t have much faith in marriage and they feel the meaning of liberty is to live alone without any restriction. That’s why most of the youngsters in foreign prefer open relationships where they both live together without any commitment and can leave whenever they want.
The custom of western culture is spreading its wings very fast in India also where youth are molding more towards casual relationships rather going for a long term relation. The funny reason they have for casual relation is they feel that they all are dependent and would not prefer anyone to take hold on them.
“I would like to go for a casual relation because I cannot become serious with anyone without knowing. So before that we can have a casual relation without any promises and once if we feel the tuning is fine than we can think for a longer aspect” said, Abhishek Awasthi.
Like Abhishek, most of the youngsters have same approach towards relationship. They want to live a life in a very simpler way on their own terms and conditions.
Before, metro cities were only popular for couples having a live in relationship but with the time the thinking of the small cities have also changed where youths are leaving home and going for casual affairs. WTN
